We were off with our last taste of Biggby/Beaners in hand (a coupon in my inbox for today only... it was surely a sign!), we left Grand Rapids for good. This is when the goodbyes that I had given so many of finally began to set in. We are so excited to move and know that this is where God wants us, but all I could do is look backwards and long for so many things and people to take with us. I think in situations like these, God really likes to teach us to depend on Him to be enough.
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
On the road!
We were off with our last taste of Biggby/Beaners in hand (a coupon in my inbox for today only... it was surely a sign!), we left Grand Rapids for good. This is when the goodbyes that I had given so many of finally began to set in. We are so excited to move and know that this is where God wants us, but all I could do is look backwards and long for so many things and people to take with us. I think in situations like these, God really likes to teach us to depend on Him to be enough.
Saturday, July 18, 2009
More Rolling with the Punches...
So here's the new plan (that I hope and pray is the final one... please Lord, I have had enough learning in this area of flexibility or whatever it is...): Moving truck Tuesday night, leave for Matt's fam Wed morning and spend the day with them, then take off from there Thursday morning for Cali. Which means I had to bump all of our hotel reservations back a day, but thankfully they still had openings.
One more day in GR for us. Which may be annoying for us, but is good news for Samson. He got homesick or seperation anxiety or something the last 2 days before we got home and was puking and had diarrhea for our friends. We thought he was fine once we got home, but yesterday I woke up at 6:30 to him freaking out because it wasn't over; he had gone in his cage. We're trying to get him better before the long car ride!
I am really not sure when I am going to have time to post mroe pics on here from the last few posts... maybe if we get done with packing early since we have an extra day? Otherwise it might have to wait until we are in Merced and get internet.
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
THE FURMINATOR
We figured that maybe that was because Samson was smaller and his hair is pretty straight and not very fluffy. So we brought it to Seattle to try on Dustin and Jenae’s dog, Gus. It worked much better on him, and we would have got even more if we kept going.
Seattle and Sun Lakes, WA
When we checked in online the night before for our flight to Seattle, it said that our flight was overbooked and there was an option to sign up to get bumped. For the first time in forever we didn’t have any immediate plans that day and signed right up! This turned into quite the long day in the airport… we still had to get there in time for our 8:30am flight… and then had to wait around until the next one at 3:30. But we each got $400 Alaska Airlines travel vouchers! That was more than worth it.
Some may think we’re crazy for going on a weeklong vaca and then returning home for only 4 days to finish packing. And it may have made things a little more stressful before we left and will likely do the same when we return to finish things up… but I am SO GLAD that we did it anyways! You see, even when we weren’t packing and planning in GR and just trying to relax - I NEVER could. I would just sit there thinking of all the things that needed to be done. We had such a wonderful time on this trip and especially in Sun Lakes where I was FORCED to relax because there was nothing that I could be doing or getting done while we were there. Almost 60 people from the DeKoekkoek clan (my Dad’s fam) camped in tents, trailers, and cabins for the weekend. I have really missed seeing a lot of my aunts and uncles and cousins and their kids (who are getting SO big!) in the last few years. I am used to seeing at least a good chunk of them every few months for a holiday or get together of some sort… but the usual in the last several years has been more like once a year, twice if I’m lucky. And I would still not get to see a lot of my cousins who live in Canada (or Heidi in New Zealand and Tanzania!).
It was hot and sunny the entire weekend J. Perfect weather for lots of boating, tubing, swimming, lying on the beach, water balloon wars, and generally living in your swimsuit! We especially had a lot of fun on my uncle’s 3 person tube. Lots of eating food and sitting around talking and catching up. Lots of little kids running around and begging to be chased and played with. Lots of auntie time for me with my nieces too! Lucca had a hard time with all of the new situations and people, but I got to play with her a little bit there and then a lot more Tuesday night at my parents. Both my girls are getting so big!
Moving/Housing Update
So… once again a stick has been thrown beneath our wheels as we try to move forward with all this moving stuff. I think we managed to quickly recover without falling. After FINALLY having found and secured an apartment with wonderful management… Matt’s principal and a few others expressed some serious concern to us about the safety of that neighborhood. My initial reaction: “You’ve got to be kidding me! Will this never end?” But what can you do when things keep tripping you up? Keep chugging along. Keep trusting in God’s plan that is grander than my own. Thankfully, we the manager at the old place is amazingly helpful and flexible and is mailing our deposit back to us.
There was another apartment complex that we had found earlier that is in a better area and that allows bigger dogs, so we contacted them to make sure they still had something available. We scrambled to get an application faxed to them yesterday and just received confirmation today that we were approved and have it held for us! This was a scramble because we need to get our address to the moving company, considering they come on Monday (AH!).
So the new complex is 0.7 miles from Matt’s school, even closer. And the dog park is still only 1 mile away. Good news bears. Our actual apartment will be quite a bit larger (an extra 200 sq ft), but so is the complex, meaning slightly less friendly and a lot less green space for Samson. We will have 2 very small fenced in cement patios also.
So here I sit in the airport, waiting to board our flight to Chicago (and typing in a word document to copy and paste later). Once we arrive, we are going to hangout with Matt’s family and enjoy dinner together with them, before driving back to GR. Then comes the beginning of the packing frenzy! We have Thursday through Sunday to finish packing everything before the moving company comes on Monday. Yikes! I hope we can get it all done and squeeze in all the other little breaks and activities we have planned with friends and family on those days too. It’s going to be a zoo at our house, that’s for sure!
Thursday, July 9, 2009
God Provides
We are thanking God for the apartment; although we knew that He would provide something... so this next thing seems much bigger to us because we were not expecting it. A couple of weeks ago, Matt blew a tire on his way to work. When he brought it in to get new tires, they said that he bent up the wheel rim (or something like that) too badly to put a new tire on, and that he would need a new one of those too! Thankfully they had a cheaper generic option, but the total with tires was still around $350. So all of that on top of an existing problem that we needed to get fixed before we drive accross the country: his car window has been broken for a while... it won't go up and down with the switch and starts falling down, so you have to pull it back up. We took this in and the part that was broken was quite expensive as well. We talked them down a little, but that ended up to be around $350 as well.... totalling around $700 in a week for the car.
I am sitting there thinking: we need our money for moving expenses; we're not going to have much left after the car and that. Thursday was Matt and my last day of work. We both got our last paychecks and everything like that. It ended up that Costco pays out all of your remaining sick and vacation time when you leave, and Matt had hardly taken any sick time ever (I'm not sure we even knew he had sick time!). So what is my point about this blessed paycheck? It was almost exactly $700 more than his normal paycheck that we were expecting! Gasp! I always hear people talk about those moments where they need a certain amount of money and they like get a check in the mail for that exact amount or something, but I have never experienced it myself. Thank you Lord for your faithfulness!
Saturday, June 27, 2009
Crazy Business!
Pretty much most of my weekend time and days off have been filled with packing, researching housing or other things in Merced, chores around the house, and walking/jogging with Samson. I have been trying to do a little less on weeknights to give myself a little break, but sometimes that still doesn't happen. We've also already been busy cramming in when to see all of our friends before we leave. And for some reason I thought that my Thursday night church softball league was still a good idea in the mix of all of this... I must be crazy!
A side note on adding to the chaos... people have been getting moved around to different rooms at work as well as 2 new people starting... so it is just as crazy there as my home life is.
Moving progress report:
We have a moving company scheduled to load our stuff on Monday July 20. They will load everything and pack our furnature up and send the truck on its way. We got a $2800 moving allowance from Matt's school, which should only leave us with about $1000 to pay (this was a HUGE answer to prayer!).
It's a long story, but searching for housing, particularly an actual house to rent has proven rather difficult and time consuming with little results. I started looking at some apartments instead... and found a really nice looking complex that is only 0.7 miles from Matt's school (he could bike there). There is even a brand new dog park across the street! We are waiting to hear their decision about allowing Samson. They allow dogs up to 30 lbs, and then it's kinda a case by case basis beyond that. They also offer 6 month and month by month leases that we could choose and then possibly find a house once we're there. If it works out, I will post more info.
Matt and my last day of work is Thursday, July 2. Then from July 5-15 we will be gone camping both in Michigan and Washington. Then we return for final packing and cleaning, ah! We do have pretty much everything packed that we don't need right now.